“Hike up your skirt a little more and show the world to me”  Dave Matthews, Crash Into Me

When your significant other fell in love with you, you were fun!!  You were their sexy girlfriend/boyfriend, excited to go places with them, perhaps you daydreamed about their laugh, the way they lingered when they looked in your eyes…When you saw your love your face lit up with anticipation.  A smile that went from your belly to your eyes.  Taking in all of the one you loved (lusted after).  The fantasy of touching them, being touched…Kissing them, and being kissed….Was what you waited for all day long.  This Valentine’s day Create that feeling once again, for both of you.

Whatever is holding you back from that passion (if it is worth re-igniting again), make it your priority.  Sometimes, we have an inner parent telling us “You can’t have any fun until all your work is done!”  Well, as adults we know ALL the work is never done, there is always something else to do.  We remember old hurts and frustrations and hold them against the one we love.  Let go of the block from your inner parent and allow yourself to indulge in some couple time.

Or perhaps, it’s an inner child that was punished for laughing too loud, dancing in the kitchen or “Hiking up your skirt a little more”.  Trust me if the flame is still there, there is nothing more they want from you except to “Hike up your skirt a little more….”  Show him/her you want them, show them they are still sexy, and that there is no one else you’d rather be with.  Let the inner child know it is very OK to dance in the kitchen and let the inner Vixen prance.

There are very few of us that look as good as we did 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, 40 years ago.  But your loved one may be the only one that still remembers exactly how hot you were and how much you turned them on.  Even though the baggage may have shifted during the flight the genuine “come hither” smile on your lips and behind your eyes brings those sexy memories flooding back and the anticipation of creating new ones.

Our lives are so busy and taking the time to “have fun” seems like too much of a luxury, however, why do you work so hard if not to earn some “fun time”.  Our relationships need to be our priority for our short term and long term happiness.  We all work so HARD!!  You have earned some fun.

Hypnotherapy can help you release the blocks of the Inner Parent and Inner Child and rebuild your self esteem.  No one loves you like you, and no one loves your companion like you do either.  Don’t let anything hold you back from bringing more joy and bliss into your life, especially your love life.

Happy Valentine’s Day